We are funny bunch of creatures. Self contradictory in every bit. We love to live in illusions and then we preach religion, honesty, goodness, noble thoughts and other virtues twisted as per our convenience.
We live with the Ostrich approach and think no one is watching or no one understands but we understand each other well for we all do the same, lie the same fashion, justify in more or less same idiotic ways and are equally bizarre and funny.
We love to live with the feeling that the present state we are in isnt the best one for us. Rather things would have been much better if we had what we dont have now, say a better job, a better house, better spouse, better furniture. but what looks better or should i say the most appealing immediately after we have acquired it seems to be worse than what we had before. the better job then looks worse than the one we were one, the present girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse turns out to be better than the Ex:- ) and we never stop comparing, the better car doesnt look nice anymore parked outside the house because a friend bought a bigger and a better car than mine. Uffffffffffff how complex we all are. We crib and crib and crib. We always do. Dont we? We dont even spare our parents on many occasions and somebody else's parents seem like the best.
But amidst all this have we ever thought when we get something the charm dies which is but natural. the curiosity kills the cat and we are on a quest for something new, more adventurous, thrilling and moreover new. It is good and bad in many ways. Good in the sense that it makes us progressive, brings in new discoveries and inventions and revolution and bad that we forget the thin line between respecting what we have and what we need and replacing the old with the new arising out of convenience or need.
Nothing can give us permanent happiness and what looks better right now may not look the same later. What we dont have today is because we have some things which we might not have had when we had what we dont have:-). it is always important to appreciate what we have now, its value and what we have achieved so far for there are many envying us for all that while we sit and sulk in a corner throughout and then sit and sulk more when we lose it to what we thought was better.
We live with the Ostrich approach and think no one is watching or no one understands but we understand each other well for we all do the same, lie the same fashion, justify in more or less same idiotic ways and are equally bizarre and funny.
We love to live with the feeling that the present state we are in isnt the best one for us. Rather things would have been much better if we had what we dont have now, say a better job, a better house, better spouse, better furniture. but what looks better or should i say the most appealing immediately after we have acquired it seems to be worse than what we had before. the better job then looks worse than the one we were one, the present girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse turns out to be better than the Ex:- ) and we never stop comparing, the better car doesnt look nice anymore parked outside the house because a friend bought a bigger and a better car than mine. Uffffffffffff how complex we all are. We crib and crib and crib. We always do. Dont we? We dont even spare our parents on many occasions and somebody else's parents seem like the best.
But amidst all this have we ever thought when we get something the charm dies which is but natural. the curiosity kills the cat and we are on a quest for something new, more adventurous, thrilling and moreover new. It is good and bad in many ways. Good in the sense that it makes us progressive, brings in new discoveries and inventions and revolution and bad that we forget the thin line between respecting what we have and what we need and replacing the old with the new arising out of convenience or need.
Nothing can give us permanent happiness and what looks better right now may not look the same later. What we dont have today is because we have some things which we might not have had when we had what we dont have:-). it is always important to appreciate what we have now, its value and what we have achieved so far for there are many envying us for all that while we sit and sulk in a corner throughout and then sit and sulk more when we lose it to what we thought was better.
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